Does Size Matter?

I know most people especially you gentleman are asking
this question without ever getting the same answer. Well,
Let me Shine Some "Candle" Light On That Subject
For You
No One ever takes us aside and teaches us the art of loving.
Sex to our parents or "the talk" is always very
difficult or even Taboo.
I want to explain a few facts for you.
Most women have/had men, who don't perform oral foreplay
on them, some try, but are not really successful. Try getting
to the point of climaxing, without being stroked or getting
a BJ. It's the same for women.
If a woman is crappy at pleasing you orally, or does it very
mechanically, it's not the same as you feel, when she
is good at it, and makes you feel like she is really enjoying
it.
When women get close, or just barely get aroused and you
stop and want to get your share... it is exactly, as you would
feel if it happened to you. Most women do NOT come from intercourse,
it's just the way we are built. You would have to have
a p*nis curved very much upwards to stimulate our G-Spot
to make us *come
To get to the point... lol. Most women un-knowingly, sincerely,
and mistakingly "believe" "hope"
and "wish" that a man with a bigger p*nis will
be able to make her *come. A lot of women I spoke and worked
with, have said that the guys with the small p*nis were the
best lovers they ever had, because they tried to over compensate
for their size, with oral pleasure, which is what they wanted
most of all, in the first place.
The truth is, nothing will substitute for stimulating
her cl*toris. Then her G-Spot. If you learn the technique
and get a little more creative with it, add your own little
personal touches -so it's not too mechanical- if you
can make her *come many times, until she begs you to finish,
she will be aroused enough to finally orgasm from intercourse,
because then her G-Spot will be engorged enough for you
to stimulate it through friction.
As I said, many women don't even know, what a REAL orgasm
is, or they think that there is something wrong with them,
because they can't *come. Ladies, It isn't your
fault, it's because most men are very selfish, or some,
simply don't understand how IMPORTANT it is, to pleasure
us orally, due to lack of knowledge.
And yet, some simply don't really care about the woman,
as long as they get their release.
That is the ONLY reason, women want men with a large member.
Truthfully... large members often damage us, and even
hurt and make sex unpleasant.
If men concentrated more on foreplay and studying our bodies,
our responses, If they stopped expecting us to always make
noise the moment they touch us (otherwise they think they
are not doing it right, and loose patience, or get discouraged
and stop trying, which is the worst they can do). You need
to give us time to really relax, enjoy your touch, your caress,
your kisses and licks, without rushing us, without making
us feel pressured to boost your ego, and make you feel like
you are making us *come, with the slightest effort.
Women need time to get aroused, we need to feel like you adore
us and you are willing to pleasure us all night, (even if
you are not), only when we are completely relaxed, we are
able to get that tingle and allow it grow and to get stronger,
and then we will make all the noise you want to hear, but this
time not fake, but real.
Don't rush us. Don't pressure us (because you
want your turn). Instead of getting impatient, try to think
of how much you love her, how much you want to please her and
how much you want to make her happy. Attitude is everything,
if you can learn to apply these tips to your love making...then
your women would walk around glowing and smiling, no matter
what size your member is.
The secret to being a great lover "NO Matter how big
or small, wide or thin, long or short you are" is being
good at foreplay and being patient, to really, truly want
to please your woman, without thinking "geez, will
she come already?". If you become better at foreplay...
so will she, I guarantee it. It will make her want to be better
for you, too.
Remember, women will sense your impatience, and she will
fake it just to make you think she came. When she senses you
are not really into it, she will loose the nice feeling and
loose her pleasure, the "mood" will just dissipate,
no matter how close she may be.
Women mostly don't want to hurt your pride, so they
fake it, and they end up unsatisfied. The more often it happens,
the more times she gets no release, the more she will become
discouraged, and even loose faith in you as a lover. She
may even loose any hope of you ever giving her an orgasm.
You must remember, women are very delicate, very spiritual
and intuitive. If you are not sincere in wanting to truly
please her, she will know it. Just think, you expect her
to be eager to please you and be enthusiastic and sincere
about it. It's a two way street.
Yes, I admit, there are days where we want just hot passionate,
"just take me" kind of sex, too. But without
having a lover with a slow, loving hand... it doesn't
happen too often.
I hope this helped, and I hope I sparked some ideas to discuss,
for couples, men or women, who never understood why women
can't come from an intercourse. WE NEED FOREPLAY.
Caresses, licks and kisses, and lots of CL*TORAL STIMULATION.
So the steps are:
Kisses all over, her inner arms and in the fold of her wrists,
her elbow, her belly, the small of her back, her ankles,
behind her knees, her inner thighs, her belly her breasts,
her nipples. You can even tease a little and play around
her little spots to make her yearn for you to play with them.
Then get to the pretty folds of her lips. Lick them suck them,
flick them, before you even think of heading towards the
rose bud. Take your time, don't rush. If you feel your
tongue is getting tired, lubricate your finger and use
your finger.
Once she is swollen and red and throbbing, stick your finger
inside her (the upper part, up towards the pubic area, and the g-spot
is no further that 2-3 inches from the entrance. Stimulate
it while you are playing with her beautiful lips. Stop and
go in for a sensual soft, no tongue choking her, just soft,
kiss on her mouth, and tease her nipples, nibble on her neck,
then go back to her g-spot and clitoris. Have fun with it.
Think of, how much satisfaction you will have, when is cuming
like she never had before
Once you understand and accept it, once you start applying
it in your relationship, we will let you know when we are
ready for you to stick us... lol